We still love the sun even though it hurts to look at her directly. We rarely get to admire her true beauty, but we get to feel her warmth stroking our skin and she lights our world to see the beauty in other things.
Love like the sun, so blindingly bright that you light up the love in others. So bright that the only way to be admired is through the light you shine on others.
It is through contribution, not competition, that we are able to change the world.